Reasonable, isn’t it?
To simply express your preferred way of doing things, no matter how strong the preference, even when… bordering on demand, after all, if you can foresee the mess another is about to make when they cannot, don’t you have an obligation to help them avoid it!?
So right!
Things should never have to get messy; if only we could do things just as You have planned them, everything would go so much more smoothly!